mrpaulmulder

Today, 25 April 2020 is Parental Alienation Awareness Day. To most people, Parental Alienation is a very foreign concept that is never really contemplated or understood. But to some of us Parental Alienation is all too real, we are either a damaged child used as a weapon in an act of vengeance against a targeted parent or we are the targeted parent who has been forced to witness the terrible emotional abuses that our children are being subjected to…..There is unanimity around the world that Parental Alienation is child abuse. The subject of Parental Alienation has been widely studied and it’s causes and consequences are much better understood than they were a short few years ago…..however all the understanding in the world does not stop the damage that is being inflicted through Parental Alienation every day. Speaking to adults who as a child experienced a parent alienating another parent from them, the intensity of the anger and rejection towards the alienating parent is over...

Friday, 9 April 2020. Today marks 33 months since Nikki was abducted. I currently have zero contact with him, receive news of his state of wellness or have received any responses to communications directed at Nikki’s Mom or certain areas of the Bulgarian Ministry of Justice…...Parental Alienation is Child Abuse. As I sit and reflect over the past 7 years of my life, I can honestly say with conviction that I have witnessed with my own eyes……signs of a world that is creaking at the seams. From the terrible abuses inflicted on vulnerable members of our society (and sometimes by their own family e.g. parental alienation), through massive natural disasters to our current COVID-19 lockdown, one must certainly step back and wonder when will mankind take a long hard look at ourselves and realise we cannot continue this cycle. So today as I sit here after two weeks of lockdown I try to convince myself that although Nikki is not safe from the abuses of parental alienation, he might j...

Monday, 9 March 2020. Today marks 32 months since Nikki was abducted. I currently have zero contact with him, receive news of his state of wellness or have received any responses to communications directed at Nikki’s Mom or certain areas of the Bulgarian Ministry of Justice…..However work continues with new avenues being explored and new adventures to be taken on board. Parental Alienation is Child Abuse. https://youtu.be/AalKMOpqqME This 10 second video is the Norton Dominator motorcycle that my Dad was so lovingly restoring and wanted to show Nikki in running order. While Nikki's Oupa (my Dad) lay dying of cancer, he still found the strength to take Nikki to the garage to show him the bikes he was restoring,...the Norton was a particularly special project. Nikki's Oupa passed away after Nikki was abducted and never got to put the final touches on the Norton or show Nikki the bike in running order....I am eternally grateful to Kevin and Andy Robertson who boug...

Saturday, 9 February 2020. Today marks 31 months since Nikki was abducted. I currently have zero contact with him, receive news of his state of wellness or have receive any responses to communications directed at Nikki’s Mom or certain areas of the Bulgarian Ministry of Justice…..there is only a dark void and deafening silence. My attempts to drive the mediation process have been met with further silence and one can only assume that the response I received on 18 October 2019 stating “Ms. XXXXX-XXXXX stated that she did not oppose negotiations through a mediation procedure.” was just another mala fida utterance. Also during the past month there are a number of legal efforts underway in Bulgaria, 1.        In one of them, responses from Nikki’s Mom to the documents I have submitted are along the lines of “…a mixture of not-quite-truths; denials; requests for provision of documentation (which have been provided ad nauseam)..”. It is always with a...