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Monday, 9 August 2021 marks 4 years and 1 month since Nikki's abduction to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki and receive no news of his well being and my attempts to contact him are rejected by his mother. Parental Alienation is child abuse. In South Africa, August is Women’s Month - and each year August 9th is celebrated as Women’s Day. Women's Day celebrates the strength and resilience of women and their contribution to society and country. During the past month Nikki lost a cousin, once removed to the COVID virus. At his memorial service, my cousin's two sons spoke of their profound love and deep pain at the loss of their father...their eulogies were a harsh reminder to the profound influence a father has on the lives of his son's and the tremendous void which is left when he departs. Rest In Peace my dear cousin (and Nikki's cousin, once removed) Wayne. Also during the past month I worked more on the book which will be "Nikki's Story...

  Friday, 9th July 2021 is 4 years since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels to maintain a presence in his life. Parental Alienation is child abuse… This month I continued to gather ideas for the book of "Nikki's story" and started to put pen to paper......The process is proving to be far more difficult than I initially anticipated....I thought I could face this process with a feeling of abstraction, where after more than 4 years it would be like "looking in" rather than "living in" the process....It's not, the process is very much like gouging open old wounds and reliving the pain.....Only this time it is perhaps worse because while going through the trauma, I had always had great faith and anticipation that the outcome would be different...It turned out far worse than I could ever have anticipated, and now I relive...

Wednesday , 9 May 2021 marks 3 years and 11 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother. Parental Alienation is child abuse… During the past month,   I was out on the tennis court and a lady who was playing on the court next to me had brought a little toddler along....He had just started walking and wondered across onto my court, bottle in hand....For the first time since Nikki's abduction, I didn't feel like I wanted to run away and when the little guy fell.....for the first time I didn't fall.....and so I realised, I was ready to take another step forward in this terrible saga. So, I began to define the structure of the book I am going to write which will serve as the true anthology of what happened in the first three and a half years of Nikki's life. The book won't be my ramblings or hypothesis, it will ...

Dear Nikki, wishing you a Merry Christmas filled with lots of fun and cheer! I love you and miss you very much,…..your presents are all here waiting for you. https://youtu.be/Z61Q5VriRc4

Sunday, 9 May 2021 marks 3 years and 10 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother. Parental Alienation is child abuse… Today is also Mother’s Day and Grandmother’s, also being mothers are also celebrated. Nikki’s Grandmother loved him dearly and despite writing impassioned pleas to both Nikki’s Mom and her parents in her final months (and in the knowledge that her journey on earth was nearing the end) for just a picture of Nikki…….she died never seeing or hearing of Nikki since before the abduction. Happy Mother’s Day to all those Moms who selflessly put the needs of their children above their own and nurture great children, who in turn become great parents. Parental Alienation Crawford International Sandton https://pt-br.facebook.com/CrawfordSandton/videos/how-to-deal-with-parent-alienation/3907573602621597/ funny en...

В неделя, 9 май 2021 г. се навършват 3 години и 10 месеца от отвличането на Ники в София, България. В момента имам нулев контакт с Ники или получавам новини за състоянието му, въпреки многобройните опити по множество канали, насочени към майка му. Отчуждението на родителите е насилие над деца ... Днес също е Ден на майката и Баба, също като майки също се празнуват. Бабата на Ники го обичаше силно и въпреки че пишеше страстни молби както на майката на Ники, така и на родителите й през последните й месеци (и като знаеше, че пътуването й по земята е към своя край), само за снимка на Ники ...... тя почина, никога не виждайки или изслушване на Ники от преди отвличането. Честит Ден на майката на всички онези майки, които безкористно поставят нуждите на децата си над своите и възпитават страхотни деца, които от своя страна стават страхотни родители. Родителско отчуждение Crawford International Sandton https://pt-br.facebook.com/CrawfordSandton/videos/how-to-deal-with-parent-alienation/3...

  Friday, 9 April 2021 marks 3 years and 8 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother. Parental Alienation is child abuse… Not a day passes that I do not think of Nikki..... Thanks to the efforts of a growing number of dedicated mental health and behavioral clinician-scientists, PA is gaining acceptance as a recognized disorder. It has been proposed as a search term in ICD-11 ( QE52.0 Caregiver-child relationship problem ). The concept of PA is described in DSM-5, if not listed as a formal diagnosis. The  American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry 3  and the  American Academy of Pediatrics 4  have both included discussion of PA in society guidelines.

  В петък, 9 април 2021 г., се навършват 3 години и 8 месеца от отвличането на Ники в София, България. В момента имам нулев контакт с Ники или получавам новини за състоянието му, въпреки многобройните опити по множество канали, насочени към майка му. Отчуждението на родителите е насилие над деца ... Не минава и ден да не мисля за Ники ..... Thanks to the efforts of a growing number of dedicated mental health and behavioral clinician-scientists, PA is gaining acceptance as a recognized disorder. It has been proposed as a search term in ICD-11 ( QE52.0 Caregiver-child relationship problem ). The concept of PA is described in DSM-5, if not listed as a formal diagnosis. The  American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry 3  and the  American Academy of Pediatrics 4  have both included discussion of PA in society guidelines.

  Happy Easter 2021 Nikki! I love you and miss you very much. Lots of love from Daddy.  

  Честит Великден 2021 Ники! Много те обичам и ми липсваш. Много любов от татко.

  Вторник, 9 февруари 2021 г., се навършват 3 години и 7 месеца от отвличането на Ники в София, България. В момента имам нулев контакт с Ники или получавам новини за състоянието му, въпреки многобройните опити по множество канали, насочени към майка му. Отчуждението на родителите е насилие над деца ...През този месец Ники имаше своя 7-ми рожден ден. Видях и няколко снимки в интернет на Ники от около 2019 г. (първите изображения, които видях на него, откакто майка му се обърна с него и си тръгна, след като ме видя в двора ми на посещение в социалните служби в България) .... .Беше изключително трудно и отне много сили, за да разгледам снимките .... Въпреки че на някои от снимките Ники изглежда здрав, тъжно е да се знае, че е бил подложен на огромна психологическа травма и кой знае какъв друг гняв https://www.facebook.com/ BritishSchoolSF/photos/ 1643857655662432

  Tuesday, 9 February 2021 marks 3 years and 7 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother. Parental Alienation is child abuse… During this month Nikki had his 7th Birthday. I also saw some pictures on the internet of Nikki from around 2019 (the first images I have seen of him since his mother turned around with him and walked away upon seeing me at my court granted visit at Social Services in Bulgaria) .....It was extremely hard and took a lot of strength to look at the pictures ....Although in some of the pictures Nikki looks healthy, it is sad to know that he has been subjected to immense psychological trauma and who knows what other anger.... https://www.facebook.com/ BritishSchoolSF/photos/ 1643857655662432

  Happy Birthday Nikki! Wishing you a fantastic day and year ahead, filled with all the special things you enjoy and which make you happy! Today. Wednesday, 7 February 2021 is Nikki's 7th Birthday. It is almost 3 years and 7 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother. Parental Alienation is child abuse… I will never grow tired of struggling to get to Nikki, never stop and never surrender........

  Събота, 9 януари 2021 г., се навършват 3 години и 6 месеца от отвличането на Ники в София, България. В момента имам нулев контакт с Ники или получавам новини за състоянието му, въпреки многобройните опити по множество канали, насочени към майка му. Отчуждението на родителите е насилие над деца ... Влизам в Нова година с отворени очи, вечно оптимистичен, че това ще бъде годината, която носи промяната ... ... Моите новогодишни решения се променят, но моето желание е винаги същото ... „Тъй като проучих и изучих задълбочено тази тема, реших да пиша за това какво се случва, когато нарцисистът е родител. Целта ми е да осигуря насоки и разбиране както за някой, който има родител нарцисист, така и за някой, който е родител заедно с нарцисист. "   https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/08/when-the-narcissist-is-the-parent/

  Saturday, 9 January 2021 marks 3 years and 6 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother. Parental Alienation is child abuse… I enter the New Year with my eyes open, forever optimistic that this will be the year that brings the change…..My New Year’s resolutions change but my wish is always the same…..   “As I have researched and studied this subject in depth, I have decided to write about what happens when the narcissist is a parent. I aim to provide guidance and understanding for both someone who has a narcissist parent, and someone who is co-parenting with a narcissist.”   https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/08/when-the-narcissist-is-the-parent/

  Скъпа Ники, пожелавам ти весела Коледа, изпълнена с много забавление и веселие! Обичам те и много ми липсваш ... ... всички твои подаръци са тук и те чакат. https://youtu.be/Z61Q5VriRc4

Thursday, 9 May 2019 Today Marks 22 months since Nikki’s abduction. The ever-present pain never goes away but it has become a source motivation for me to channel my energies deeper into protecting Nikki’s bet interests and using his story to prevent other children and parents from suffering under the cruelty of parental alienation. This month saw me kicking off a number of interesting initiatives which I will be updating you about over the coming months, if the journey wasn’t so painful…..I might venture to call it quite exiting. During this past month I have been following and supporting my “brother-in-arms” Orrock Roberston who has been doing a 1000km walk for Children Need Both Parents , he very bravely posted this video that exposes the veil of shame and secrecy alienators create, which enables them to operate with impunity. The raw emotional pain of losing a child coupled with the indignity of a web of fabrications alienators concoct and which are directed at the alienat...

April 25, 2019 Today is Parental Alienation Day Worldwide. The cruelty of Parental Alienation does not only abuse the affected child and the targeted parent, but extends to grandparents, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, friends, work colleague and society at large…Wear a blue item of clothing today to remember all those who are affected. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/caught-between-parents/201106/parental-alienation-is-emotional-abuse-children

Happy Easter Nikki! We all love you and miss you very much.... https://karenwoodall.blog/2019/02/16/parental-alienation-on-stage-in-london/?fbclid=IwAR3t5DJMkndbomhyOY6FA3vBp6Un7zZa5bNq2by8Ev1NR678XJ37X2XZw6o

Today marks 21 months since Nikki's abduction. 100% alienation is still enforced by his Mom and I have no contact him or receive no updates with regards to Nikki's well being or developmental milestones...The gifts which I bought Nikki in this picture have huge significance and despite the smiles, have a very sad undertone......but I'll talk about that at a later point in time.... This month saw me doing some interesting things which included participating in two parental alienation studies, one of them for a major American University. Not only was I able to contribute to the studies but they opened my (already curious) eyes to how damaging parental alienation is, not only to the child but to the families, extended families & friends of the children and parents who are affected.....parental alienation is a societal problem. There was also a lot of comfort to be drawn from participating in the studies, one of the points that stood out to me is that the child,...