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April 25, 2019 Today is Parental Alienation Day Worldwide. The cruelty of Parental Alienation does not only abuse the affected child and the targeted parent, but extends to grandparents, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, friends, work colleague and society at large…Wear a blue item of clothing today to remember all those who are affected. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/caught-between-parents/201106/parental-alienation-is-emotional-abuse-children

Happy Easter Nikki! We all love you and miss you very much.... https://karenwoodall.blog/2019/02/16/parental-alienation-on-stage-in-london/?fbclid=IwAR3t5DJMkndbomhyOY6FA3vBp6Un7zZa5bNq2by8Ev1NR678XJ37X2XZw6o

Today marks 21 months since Nikki's abduction. 100% alienation is still enforced by his Mom and I have no contact him or receive no updates with regards to Nikki's well being or developmental milestones...The gifts which I bought Nikki in this picture have huge significance and despite the smiles, have a very sad undertone......but I'll talk about that at a later point in time.... This month saw me doing some interesting things which included participating in two parental alienation studies, one of them for a major American University. Not only was I able to contribute to the studies but they opened my (already curious) eyes to how damaging parental alienation is, not only to the child but to the families, extended families & friends of the children and parents who are affected.....parental alienation is a societal problem. There was also a lot of comfort to be drawn from participating in the studies, one of the points that stood out to me is that the child,...

3 March 2019 Today marks 20 Months since Nikki's abduction.....The big challenge from now is to try and get some sort of contact with Nikki, 100% alienation is being enforced by his mother and I have no contact or any update about Nikki whatsoever.....It is clear that I that the attempts to erase any trace of me from Nikki's life are in full force. My work around achieving justice and creating a better life for Nikki continues and below are links to the judgments if you are intereste d to see the contrast between the two.... https://mrpaulmulder.blogspot.com/2019/03/24-july-2018-bulgarian-family-court.html https://mrpaulmulder.blogspot.com/2019/03/11-january-2019-bulgarian-appeal-court.html

This is what parental alienation is and what it looks like...

https://youtu.be/UsTWijE9IfQ A brief insight into my story from the #Microsoft job offer to the Bulgarian abduction. The interview was with Ayanda Allie Paine of eNCA and Megan Harrington-Johnson of Schindlers Attorneys.

Paul Mulder  is at  Lozenets, Sofia . August 10, 2018  ·  Sofia, Bulgaria This morning I went to the Social Centre to reconfirm in person my 12:00-13:30 meeting with Nikki today. I had set up a schedule to confirm which Friday's I wou ld be in Bulgaria and provided it via my lawyers to Nikki's Mom in the hopes of fostering a constructive co-parenting environment. Never-the-less, I didn't want to leave anything to chance after the relevant confirmations were done and appeared there in person. For some reason the Social Centre phoned Nikki's mother, who informed them that Nikki is ill and he will not be attending today's meeting. When I returned at 12:00, I was informed that a doctor's letter had been received from Nikki's Mom in the past 5 minutes...... The picture is presents I was to give Nikki today. # bringnikkimulderhome   # coparenting   # co -parenting

Today I managed to see Nikki at the Social Assistance Directorate Lozenets (SSD Lozenets), Sofia, Bulgaria. Logistics have been a nightmare and I was told that the meeting is a favour to me as the court has not supplied SSD Lozenets with a protocol document after the hearing on 15 June. There has been unresolved confusion regarding whether a protocol document was required or not…..so I simply got on the plane and went…. Despite what was reported by the court appointed psychologist at the hearing on 15 June (“.., I am categorically of the opinion that if the child was the target of violence on the part of the father, he would have manifested fear or resentment in any manner, which was not observed during the meeting”), Nikki’s brainwashing continues…Perhaps I am naive but it is hard for me to understand this unrelenting onslaught, even though “the game is essentially up”…. Nikki sat on my lap for the 95% of the time, I got a whole lot of cuddles, a kiss, a hug and was told “You a...

9 February 2019 marked 19 months since Nikki's abduction. Delays on the journey to protecting Nikki's best interests were not unforeseen but unfortunate.....100% alienation is still in effect by his mother and I currently have no contact at all with Nikki. In the past 19 months the sum on any contact does not exceed 2 hours over 1 court ordered interaction for a psychologist to evaluate how we related to each another ( https://mrpaulmulder.blogspot.com/…/additional-conclusion- t… ), 1 supervised visit, and two visits where on seeing me, Nikki's mother lead him off down the road (preventing any interaction), two other visit were met with sick notes.... https://pro.psychcentral.com/…/what-causes-attachment-base…/ # bringnikkimulderhome   # parentalalienation   # parentalabduction # childabduction   # childabuse   # narcissisticabuse   # stockholmsyndrome # brainwashing   # IPCA # coparenting   # thehagueconvention

Jennifer Stoler from Schindlers Attorneys speaking with Justin Cohen at the Building Successful Relationships seminar with Robin Banks at the Killarney Country Club on Saturday, 9 February 2019. The video is in 2 parts at the following links: Part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBNc56o76GA #bringnikkimulderhome #parentalalienation #parentalabduction #childabduction #childabuse #narcissisticabuse #stockholmsyndrome #brainwashing #IPCA #coparenting #thehagueconvention

With just over 18 months having passed since Nikki's abduction, bits and pieces of the translated appeal court judgement are trickling in: “The evidence on file provides foundation for the conclusion that until his removal to the Republic of Bulgaria – 09.07.2017, the child (Nikki) was habitually residing in the Republic of South Africa where he was born and lived with his mother. The child left the state of residence on the above date and settled in the Republic of Bulgaria , again with his mother. With view of the above, the court finds that the child (Nikki) was wrongfully retained in Bulgaria within the meaning of article 3 of the Convention. As seen from the evidence on file with regard to the law applicable in the Republic of South Africa governing the exercising of the rights of custody with regard to minor children, the law has granted the exercising of the rights of custody with regard to the child (Nikki). as at the date of his removal to Bulgaria – 09.07.2017, an...

More on the judgement: "...and did not demonstrate behaviour demonstrating his acceptance of the mother’s retention of the child in Bulgaria. Notwithstanding the above, the court of appeal finds that in this particular case there are grounds to refuse the return of the child within the meaning of article 13, paragraph 1, letter “b” of the Convention. This article sets out that the competent authority of the requested state is not bound to order the return of the child if the body which opposes the return establishes that there is a grave risk that the return of the child would expose him to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the child in an intolerable situation. When judging the existence of the above negative prerequisite for the return of the child in his country of habitual residence before the wrongful retention, the court is being led by the child’s interest. The child’s interest, as a principle of paramount importance for solving the matters with regar...

December 25, 2018 at 8:00 AM  ·  Cape Town, South Africa Merry Christmas Nikki, we all love you and miss you so much.....Your Christmas presents are here waiting for you. # bringnikkimulderhome   # parentalalienation   # parentalabduction   # childabduction # childabuse   # narcissisticabuse   # stockholmsyndrome   # brainwashing   # IPCA # coparenting