mrpaulmulder

  Monday, 9 February 2023 marks 5 years and 7 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive any news of his wellbeing. Parental Alienation is child abuse . In January 2023, I  was happy to be made aware of this initiative    "Hi, my name is Lois Temel. I am a school teacher and filmmaker. Together with my co-producer, Dr Braam Ackermann (a psychiatrist), we are making a documentary on parental alienation. This is when one parent, normally during divorce and separation, turns the children against the alienated parent. In severe cases this can lead to no contact between the child and the alienated parent. Both women and men engage in alienating behaviour in equal measure and it has profound implications for the children and alienated parent involved. We have already interviewed several parental alienation experts for this film, including Dr Amy Baker. Funds raised will be to travel to Israel in Marc...

  Monday, 9 January 2023 marks 5 years and 6 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive any news of his wellbeing. Parental Alienation is child abuse ( https://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=8U54NF_mAck ). In January, 2019 my diary tells me that I have just received the judgement of the appeal hearing. Nikki's mother now (as she had done towards the end in SA) made an interesting choice of legal representation, and used legal council who were better known for dealing with criminal matters than family matters ( https://www.novinite.com/ articles/129203/Lawyer+to+ Appeal+Verdict+in+Bulgaria% 27s+Double+Murder+Case ) . The strategy served her but not Nikki well. If you remember from my previous postings, I had won The Hague matter which ordered Nikki's return to South Africa where the Parenting Plan ordered by the High Court of South Africa should be implemented. Below are factors which the Appeal Court in Bulgar...

Friday, 9 September 2022 marks 5 years and 2 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive no news of his wellbeing. Parental Alienation is child abuse. https://www.psychologytoday.com/.../why-parental... I find amongst my September emails this one below: given that it took me roughly 25 hours to get from my home to Sofia at a cost of around R20,000.00 and although I tried, this schedule was impossible to keep. There is a lot of back and forth between my lawyers and I where I am trying to get a translation of the protocol. Subject: Re: Re Nicholas Mulder - Re: Nikki Visitation Itinerary Dear All I have taken the Protocol from the court hearing from 15 June 2018 and have been at the social services department at Lozenets Municipality. They have explained to me from the SSD Lozenets Municipality that they will undertake any actions in accordance with the Protocol when they receive the Protocol officially from the cour...

  Tuesday, 9 August 2022 marks 5 years and 1 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive no news of his wellbeing. Parental Alienation is child abuse. It was also this South Africa National Women's Day, two years ago that Nikki's beloved 'Granny' passed away... she was a truly remarkable woman and one day Nikki will learn of her legacy. https://www.internationalwomensday.com/.../National-Women... From my diary, I can see in August, 2018 that I am working with the Child Abduction Center in the Netherlands who are in direct communication with my Bulgarian lawyers. My lawyers also sent me an email saying that Nikki's return to South Africa has been ordered by the Bulgaria court in The Hague matter. I also go to visit Nikki at SSD Lozenets (in Bulgaria) but I am told he is ill and he doesn't attend the visit, I ask my lawyers to correspond with Nikki's Mom's lawyers to find out what is...

 Saturday, 9 July 2022 marks 4 years and 12 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive no news of his wellbeing. Parental Alienation is child abuse. Looking at my diary in July 2018: I see my lawyers have made representations to Bulgarian border patrol in an attempt to prevent a further re-abduction to a non-Hague Convention country. I had also tried to have the forensic report generated in South Africa put in front of he Bulgarian court but they refused to accept it, if I remember correctly the reason being that it was presented as evidence in another court case and could not be used again. This was a huge setback as that report was very detailed and very telling. I am also discussing with my lawyer to present Nikki's Mom with my intended itinerary for trips to see Nikki in Bulgaria. My attempts to work with Nikki's Mom in this regard proved to be a huge mistake as you'll see in later posts where I t...

Thursday, 9 June 2022 marks 4 years and 11 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive no news of his wellbeing. Parental Alienation is child abuse. Looking through my diary, I was in Bulgaria again for a Hague court case. I am also emailing my business clients in South Africa asking for some leniency around project deliverables as I am battling with my personal circumstances. Fortunately and I am forever grateful, that they graciously accommodate my ever more  erratic schedule due to monthly Bulgaria trips. I'm also receiving emails from "Little Kickers", a soccer club which I enrolled Nikki at....regrettably I had to inform them that Nikki wouldn't be coming back......they very kindly agree to terminate his contract without any financial penalty to his already badly cash hemorrhaging Dad. Authorisations and money to translate various legal documents and psycholist reports into English or ...

  Wednesday, 9 February 2022 marks 4 years and 7 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive no news of his well being. Parental Alienation is child abuse. In January 2017: Nikki's Mom has made a trip to Poland My lawyers are engaging with Nikki's Mom's third set of lawyers and she is requesting permission to remove him from South Africa  Legal comments note that I am requesting a forensic assessment to determine what Nicholas' best interests are Nikki has his first day at school Engagements with the Educational Psychologist are underway 24 January 2017, I appear in the High Court to defend Nikki's Mom application to remove Nikki from South Africa. My team win and the judge orders Nikki should not leave South Africa In January 2018: I was in discussion with two European organisations who assist with International Child Abductions I am working my lawyers in an attempt to attach Nikki's Mom...

  https://youtu.be/0Y7jdcWiOzk Happy Birthday Nikki, Daddy loves you!

  Sunday, 9 January 2022 marks 4 years and 6 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. Today I am 100% alienated from Nikki, have no contact or receive no news of his well being. Parental Alienation is child abuse. https://emmm.org.au/parental- alienation Some notes from my diary in January 2017: My lawyers received a letter from Nikki's mothers lawyers (I'll do the count but there was about the third of fourth set of lawyers Nikki's Mom was working with) which contained this statement "... my client has accepted a job offer from Microsoft requiring her to return to Bulgaria with an effective start-date of 1 February 2017, and she would never think of leaving South Africa without Nicholas." I signed documents appointing a child forensic assessor to determine the best interests of the minor child (Nikki) Communication was now flowing thick and fast between my and Nikki's Mom's lawyers, an advocate was also involved in my matter as I needed to defe...

Неделя, 9 януари 2022 г., се навършват 4 години и 6 месеца от отвличането на Ники в София, България. Днес съм 100% отчужден от Ники, нямам контакт или не получавам новини за неговото здраве. Родителското отчуждение е насилие над деца. https://emmm.org.au/parental- alienation Някои бележки от дневника ми през януари 2017 г.: Адвокатите ми получиха писмо от адвокатите на майките на Ники (аз ще преброя, но имаше около третия от четвъртия набор адвокати с които работи майката на Ники), което съдържа това изявление „...моят клиент е приел предложение за работа от Microsoft, изискващо да се върне в България с неефективна начална дата 1 февруари 2017 г. и никога няма да си помисли да напусне Южна Африка без Никълъс." Подписах документи за назначаване на съдебен експерт, който да определи най-добрите интереси на непълнолетното дете (Ники) Комуникацията сега протичаше плътно и бързо между адвокатите на моята и на майката на Ники, адвокат също беше замесен в моя въпрос, тъй като трябваш...