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  Friday, 9 October 2020 marks 3 Years since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother . Parental Alienation is child abuse…   “…First and foremost, we need to recognize parental alienation as a form of individual child abuse that requires a child protection response, no different than physical and sexual abuse. This may involve child removal from the abusive parent or, in most cases, family support services aimed at educating the parent about the effects and unacceptability of alienation and effecting a reunification process between the child and the targeted parent….”   “…However, the most recent research indicates that therapeutic interventions are most effective when there are strong legal sanctions for non-compliance with shared parenting orders, and there is an emerging consensus among alienation specialists that awar...

Thursday, 9 July 2020 marks 3 Years since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with Nikki or receive news of his state of wellness, despite multiple attempts via multiple channels directed to his mother . Parental Alienation is child abuse… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hRoSUOB8H9k XXXXXX’s situation and others like it reflect the outcome of a malicious process known as “parental alienation.” It occurs when one parent takes steps to remove the other from a child’s life. It is a deliberate effort to influence a son or daughter so that he or she comes to fear and hate the maligned parent. Put more simply, the child is “brainwashed." One might think in XXXXXX’s case that there must have been something really wrong with him and thus more to the story. Ultimately, the mental health and custody evaluators did not find this to be true. It had taken years and tens of thousands of dollars for XXXXXX to be vindicated. No independent professiona...

Tuesday, 9 June 2020 marks 35 months since Nikki was abducted to Sofia, Bulgaria. I currently have zero contact with him or receive news of his state of wellness. Parental Alienation is child abuse… The Obsessed Alienator "I love my children. If the court can’t protect them from their abusive father, I will. Even though he’s never abused the children, I know it’s a matter of time. The children are frightened of their father. If they don’t want to see him, I’m not going to force them. They are old enough to make up their own minds." The obsessed alienator is a parent, or sometimes a grandparent, with a cause: to align the children to his or her side and together, with the children, campaign to destroy their relationship with the targeted parent. For the campaign to work, the obsessed alienator enmeshes the children’s personalities and beliefs into their own. This is a process that takes time but one that the children, especially the young, are completely helpless t...

Saturday, 9 May 2020 marks 34 months since Nikki was abducted. I currently have zero contact with him or receive news of his state of wellness. Parental Alienation is Child Abuse. Parental Alienation is a gender neutral form of abuse, it does not discriminate……either a father or a mother could be the perpetrator. It is with this context in mind that tomorrow, being 10 May 2020 and Mother’s Day is all the more special. Sadly it is sometimes only when we realise how destructive a mother can be that we really appreciate those women who have selflessly dedicated themselves to providing their children the very highest forms of love which they have to give…..They are an inspiration to all of us. Last May, the World Health Organisation officially recognised parental alienation syndrome for the first time, deciding to include it in the 11th revision of the International Classification of Diseases, which comes into effect at the beginning of 2022. Parental Alienation is characterise...

Today, 25 April 2020 is Parental Alienation Awareness Day. To most people, Parental Alienation is a very foreign concept that is never really contemplated or understood. But to some of us Parental Alienation is all too real, we are either a damaged child used as a weapon in an act of vengeance against a targeted parent or we are the targeted parent who has been forced to witness the terrible emotional abuses that our children are being subjected to…..There is unanimity around the world that Parental Alienation is child abuse. The subject of Parental Alienation has been widely studied and it’s causes and consequences are much better understood than they were a short few years ago…..however all the understanding in the world does not stop the damage that is being inflicted through Parental Alienation every day. Speaking to adults who as a child experienced a parent alienating another parent from them, the intensity of the anger and rejection towards the alienating parent is over...

Friday, 9 April 2020. Today marks 33 months since Nikki was abducted. I currently have zero contact with him, receive news of his state of wellness or have received any responses to communications directed at Nikki’s Mom or certain areas of the Bulgarian Ministry of Justice…...Parental Alienation is Child Abuse. As I sit and reflect over the past 7 years of my life, I can honestly say with conviction that I have witnessed with my own eyes……signs of a world that is creaking at the seams. From the terrible abuses inflicted on vulnerable members of our society (and sometimes by their own family e.g. parental alienation), through massive natural disasters to our current COVID-19 lockdown, one must certainly step back and wonder when will mankind take a long hard look at ourselves and realise we cannot continue this cycle. So today as I sit here after two weeks of lockdown I try to convince myself that although Nikki is not safe from the abuses of parental alienation, he might j...

Monday, 9 March 2020. Today marks 32 months since Nikki was abducted. I currently have zero contact with him, receive news of his state of wellness or have received any responses to communications directed at Nikki’s Mom or certain areas of the Bulgarian Ministry of Justice…..However work continues with new avenues being explored and new adventures to be taken on board. Parental Alienation is Child Abuse. https://youtu.be/AalKMOpqqME This 10 second video is the Norton Dominator motorcycle that my Dad was so lovingly restoring and wanted to show Nikki in running order. While Nikki's Oupa (my Dad) lay dying of cancer, he still found the strength to take Nikki to the garage to show him the bikes he was restoring,...the Norton was a particularly special project. Nikki's Oupa passed away after Nikki was abducted and never got to put the final touches on the Norton or show Nikki the bike in running order....I am eternally grateful to Kevin and Andy Robertson who boug...

Saturday, 9 February 2020. Today marks 31 months since Nikki was abducted. I currently have zero contact with him, receive news of his state of wellness or have receive any responses to communications directed at Nikki’s Mom or certain areas of the Bulgarian Ministry of Justice…..there is only a dark void and deafening silence. My attempts to drive the mediation process have been met with further silence and one can only assume that the response I received on 18 October 2019 stating “Ms. XXXXX-XXXXX stated that she did not oppose negotiations through a mediation procedure.” was just another mala fida utterance. Also during the past month there are a number of legal efforts underway in Bulgaria, 1.        In one of them, responses from Nikki’s Mom to the documents I have submitted are along the lines of “…a mixture of not-quite-truths; denials; requests for provision of documentation (which have been provided ad nauseam)..”. It is always with a...